Every day we find ourselves bogged down by social media posts, email updates and long text chains. In an increasingly digital world, where communication is as easy as pressing a button, it’s easy to forget why it’s important to talk to people in person.
Now, I’m not one of those anti-technology people. I don’t like to gripe about millennials and their phones; the way we interact with other people is changing, and that’s okay. There are benefits – business and personal – to texting, email and even Facebook. After all, I’m communicating with you over the internet right now.
But there are still some instances when talking to people face-to-face is the best way to get something accomplished. Here are 5 benefits of talking in-person.
1. Easier to convince people.
When you’re conversing with someone who disagrees with you, communication over text or email can be cumbersome and ineffective. You may not have their full attention, or they may just be skimming over the words you’ve written.
Swaying people to our point of view is an essential skill for the small business owner. And the vast majority of the time, it’s much easier to get people to see your perspective when they’re in the room with you.
You aren’t an email window that can just be closed and forgotten about. You can engage them, change tactic, and make your case – persuasively!
2. Stronger Connections.
Trust isn’t built over text-message. A colleague or client who never sees your face is not likely to feel the same connection to you as someone whose hand you shake on a regular basis.
Getting to know someone, even if it’s just what kind of dog they have or where they like to go on vacation, can go a long way. It’s the personal touch. Face-to-face interaction and socialization leads to a sense of community and camaraderie, which leads to a stronger working relationship in the long-term.
3. Better non-verbal understanding.
It’s not just about talking. There’s another important dimension of communication: body language. Non-verbal cues can tell you a lot about a person, and that’s information that you can’t get over email, over the phone, or even over video chat.
Body language can tell you how a person is feeling – and how they’re feeling about what you’re talking about. It can tell you if they’re not confident about a sale or a deal. If they’re inattentive to your pitch. If their friendliness is sincere or just an act.
Based on non-verbal cues, you can change tactics in a pitch, adjust what tone of voice or what language you’re using, and tell for sure when you have someone’s attention back.
4. Quicker and more effective.
Whether we’re talking with our own team or communicating with a client or investor, email can cause more problems than it solves. Problem-solving is better done face-to-face.
It might take ten emails to hash out a minor detail that could be handled in two minutes in person. You might go back and forth all day trying to find a solution to a problem that you could solve in a half-hour meeting. Instantaneous replies can build off each-other. A question won’t sit in an inbox for three hours.
5. More team participation.
Getting your team all in one room can be a hassle, but it’s worth it. People are more engaged and more collaborative in face-to-face settings. This seems especially true for millennials, the generation most known for being tech-reliant.
Though some members of your team might go out on a limb to send you an idea or a quick thought over email, others might only do so if prompted. A community setting like a meeting is a great space to invite participation from every member of your team.
Questions to consider:
- How often do you hold team meetings? How engaged are people in these meetings?
- Do you close more sales over the phone or in person? Have you ever made an effort to have more in-person meetings?
- How often do you just close out of emails that don’t interest you? How often do you just walk away from a conversation?